How to detect a lie?

topic posted Sun, March 30, 2008 - 12:11 PM by  Shadow
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Shadow
  • Re: How to detect a lie?

    Wed, April 2, 2008 - 8:04 AM
    I have to work on that eye contact thing. I'm not lying when I drop eye contact during conversations, but it probably looks like I am.
    • Re: How to detect a lie?

      Wed, April 2, 2008 - 8:31 AM
      You're both lying. I can tell.
      • Re: How to detect a lie?

        Wed, April 2, 2008 - 8:44 AM
        "You're both lying. I can tell."
        That was a lie. I saw you bring your arms together and then you tried putting something between our posts(Jez), lol.
        +SW->
        • Re: How to detect a lie?

          Wed, April 2, 2008 - 8:45 AM
          Oooops...unintended pun.
          Sorry Jez
          • Re: How to detect a lie?

            Wed, April 2, 2008 - 9:31 AM
            LOL!

            But much of "body language" is culturally defined. No?
            • Re: How to detect a lie?

              Wed, April 2, 2008 - 2:17 PM
              To an extent, but if you combine the different traits that people do when they lie, cutting out the ones that are more cultural...it's pretty easy to spot a liar. In person, I am, almost, 100% on it. My weakness is when love is involved(Including friendship love), as I have a history of having blinders on with that.
              People in general...I can tell you within a short time, the equivalent of what women do with deciding on if a person will be a friend, lover, or given a fake number to call them back at(Has anyone had that happen? Just curious, as I have had friends say they did it, but haven't encountered someone who has been snobbed that way).
              However, truthfully, I don't know that I was wrong with the loves that were relationships, as I had the feeling, fought it off(Most of the time) and found out later that I was right. So....I think that knowing body language and voice fluctuations is a good thing when picking friends and lovers in the world off the net.
              +SW->
              • Re: How to detect a lie?

                Wed, April 2, 2008 - 5:17 PM
                "I am, almost, 100% on it."

                Wait... there is both serious sampling and confirmation bias here: a lie that is successful (undetected by you) and that you never discover the truth about would never enter your consciousness; in addition, when you find out about a lie later, you can convince yourself that you knew about it ("Yeah, I had that feeling that something was up") at the time.

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                • Re: How to detect a lie?

                  Wed, April 2, 2008 - 5:49 PM
                  "Wait... there is both serious sampling and confirmation bias here: a lie that is successful (undetected by you) and that you never discover the truth about would never enter your consciousness; in addition, when you find out about a lie later, you can convince yourself that you knew about it ("Yeah, I had that feeling that something was up") at the time. "
                  I know what you are talking about, but...
                  Nah....I write em down, as I have questions about things.
                  The funny thing is that I am good about writing down things, but when keeping my own scraps of papers with all my thoughts....they are scattered throughout notebooks, scraps of paper, cardboard, etc. I find out the truths later, of the things I questioned before.
                  Some things are more immediate, as I am good at getting to the truth of a matter, like one of those lie detectors, but, other times, it isn't as important to me and the truth came to play later, I stumbled across the paper when "spring cleaning" and then do the wow...I was right thing.
                  What pisses me off the most?
                  That I feel like I wasted time, denying the truth.
                  +SW->

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